Your toddler from 12 to 18 months
Twelve to eighteen months: walking, words, family meals and, for many families, childcare. What tends to change and how to stay in sync.
What tends to change
- Many toddlers take a few steps on their own by around 15 months and walk without holding on by about 18 months.[1][2]
- Early words are often incomplete, like "ba" for ball.[1]
- Many toddlers feed themselves with their fingers and start to try a spoon.[2]
- Growth slows compared with the first year, and appetite often does too.[3]
- Steady routines and a calm, quiet bedtime help.[1]
What is useful to track
- Handoffs. Daycare, a nanny or a grandparent: whoever has her logs it, and you see it. More: Caregiver handoffs.
- Sleep. "She's down." at nap time, wherever she is.
- Meds and temperature. One record of doses and readings, so two people never guess.
Sharing the care
With childcare in the mix, the day is split across more people. A shared log keeps the whole day in one place.
Ask "When did she last nap?" at pickup and get the answer from the log.
Questions for the next checkup
Well-child visits are a good time to talk about growth, development, sleep and eating. It helps to bring your top questions, and anything your baby does or does not do that concerns you.[4][5]
- How is she doing with walking and new words?
- What should meals look like now?
- How much sleep, naps included, is typical at this age?
Sources
- CDC. Milestones by 15 Months
- CDC. Milestones by 18 Months
- MedlinePlus (NIH). Developmental milestones record: 18 months
- HealthyChildren.org (AAP). AAP Schedule of Well-Child Care Visits
- CDC. Milestones by 2 Months